Private Jet love with Captain’s Choice.

Now THIS was a real experience.

Ok, we didn’t quite leave the private jet base in Sydney, but we did jump on board the 50 seat jet to hear about a seriously chic travel company called Captain’s Choice.

With Dom Perignon flowing and caviar served, a throng of travel media enjoyed what was an hour experience – where we wished that one day, maybe one day, we’ll make it into the sky and onto a destination like India, Iceland, Antartica and South Africa.

Here are a few of the facts….
Since 1994 the company (CC) have created the world’s most enriching journeys. They take their clients to all corners of the globe without compromise, whether by private jet, small luxury ship or a unique rail journey.

The clients appreciate the inspired moments can only be experienced travelling with Captain’s Choice. Through innovation and fresh thinking, CC continue to push the boundaries for clients, leading the market with high staff to guest ratios, genuinely all-inclusive tours and real and lasting engagement with many of the global communities they visit.

Thinking beyond travel, CC endeavour to curate fresh wonders, delivering inspired moments that money can’t buy.

Rob Tandy is the Executive General Manager of Captain’s Choice and a director of (and part of the family behind) one of Australia’s most important travel groups, APT.

Rob joined the group in 2012 as General Manager of the Kimberley and Outback Wilderness Adventures business and took on the role as head of Captain’s Choice in 2016.

He holds a Bachelor of Science and a Masters in Property and Construction and is also a Director and Co-founder of a leading Melbourne charity, the Snowdome Foundation.

About Lou Tandy
Lou Tandy (nee McGeary) is Director of Captain’s Choice and works in partnership with her husband Rob Tandy to drive strategies for growth of the brand. She has over a decade’s experience in product development, strategy and marketing with Australia’s largest locally owned touring company, APT, and joined its board of directors in 2005. Lou has grown up immersed in the travel business, as she is the daughter of APT founder and owner Geoff McGeary OAM.

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Quay review: famous Sydney restaurant opens in fine style

Nothing more exciting than going to an opening night. And a restaurant re-opening night at that.

And while Quay, one of Sydney‘s best restaurants has been on hiatus since April, 3 mates and I decided to book a table to celebrate two birthdays on the opening night. And yes, we were always going to be in for a treat.

Quay – the restaurant on top of the Overseas Passenger Terminal in Sydney has been a culinary icon for years, expertly run by chef guru Peter Gilmore, who, in this incarnation, is supported by 35 extraordinary staff.

I could go on and on and on – and I would love to – but to be honest, instead of dissecting each & every course, I want to give you a feel and vibe of the place. Oh. And of course, we have to talk food!

Here are some of my take-home musings.(By the way the duck is extraordinary! )And that wine list – it was like a Bible with a couple of pages dedicated to just about every vintage of Krug champagne.

Have a look at the 10 course degustation here – but there is also a six course one which is what we decided on.

Take a look at some of the morsels from the either 6 or 10 course degustation menu – such as an Oyster Intervention (tastes and is oyster but just without the texture, of which chef Peter Gilmore has never been a fan.)

I’ll start with the lighting – when you first sit down the overhead down-lighting (a tad unflattering) is quite bright so you can peruse the menu comfortably – and with well over 500 wines to choose from you could be there for hours! Then, as your meal goes on, your above table lighting adjusts so the ambience feels cosier. Direct downlights are nobody’s face friend!

It is like fine dining has been deconstructed – the interior (by Tonkin Zulaikha Greer) is cleaner and leaner, seating 80 people, not 100 like before. There’s a private dining room and event space – all with that killer Sydney harbour view.

And instead of the famous & now retired Snow Egg dessert, Peter has created something called White Coral. Worth saving up just for that.

Quay isn’t inexpensive but It’s a true culinary experience with a staff who know their stuff back to front. Try a malted barley crumpet with truffle and you’ll get the picture. And all food requirements are catered to.

I loved the sustainable solid spotted gum tables which were devoid of linen – & you are surrounded by materials derived from nature including some stingray patterned divides, volcanic lava stone with a pattern that looks like cracked bark and there is a series of blue carpet pools, referencing the ocean, of course.

Put it on your edible bucket list. And even better it wasn’t all quiet, reverential and serene: while our table was probably the loudest (sorry) it also proved that having fun, laughing (a lot) and fine dining are able to go hand-in-hand.

*Melissa and her table were paying guests at Quay restaurant

Why the plight of the 12 Thai boys trapped in a cave captivated the world

NOTHING has captivated all of us more in the last few weeks than what went on in the dank and waterlogged underground caves in Thailand.

As the mother of 16-year-old — the age of a couple of the boys rescued from the dark, dingy and dangerous, water-soaked caves — it has been a very sad but riveting rescue. It has also extracted every kind of parental emotion possible.

We have been inundated with news of each tense minute of this extraordinary rescue and now, at last, the thrilling news that all 12 and their coach are safe.

We should not forget, of course, the tragic loss of the life of one former Thai Navy seal, a hero named Saman Kunan, 38.

The fact he died while helping rescue the young soccer players and their 25-year-old coach, is something that should never, ever be forgotten. And he will, no doubt, be rewarded posthumously by the Thai government.

Picture: Thai Navy SEALs via Getty Images Source: Getty Images

Picture: Thai Navy SEALs via Getty Images Source: Getty Images

With the euphoria of the miraculous rescue still kicking in, what I cannot stop thinking about is how the parents of the boys would have been feeling up until they knew for sure that their precious kids had been saved.

They would have been constantly nauseous. Would not have slept. Hoped and prayed. Put their lives totally on hold. Would possibly have been working out the worst and hopefully, the best outcomes for their flesh and blood.

Via the wonderful world of technology, and even though the parents knew their children were still alive (although perhaps putting on a brave face for video footage beamed all over the world), they would have been, quite simply, scared to bloody death.

It has been emotional for so much of the world — and we don’t even know these children or their coach, Ekapol Chantawong — but the resilience and strength they all showed over the last 18 days is something that has resonated with all of us.

I have often thought of the To Kill a Mockingbird moment when Atticus tells Scout: “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view … until you climb in his skin and walk around in it.”

Picture: Thai Navy SEALs via Getty Images Source: Getty Images

So I did. And I can honestly say that their plight over the last few weeks is totally unimaginable.

As a mother, I found it all heartbreaking. How the parents of the boys were going to get through it, I will never know or fathom.

Even though the boys are out, there is still a long way to go in terms of physical and mental rehabilitation.

The whole rescue mission has totally put everything going on in the world — from Trump to local politics (ho-hum), the World Cup and just about anything else — into perspective.

The fact these boys’ plight captivated us for days gave many of us a sense that humanity, passion and pure kindness really does reign. Most of us can’t even imagine being without our phones or device for 24 hours, let alone being stuck in a lifeless, labyrinth of a myriad caves, not knowing if we will ever leave.

One of the amazing elements of the last few weeks has been the brilliant support team from around the world who made their way to the ledge where they were living for the last two-and-a-half weeks.

Picture: Linh Pham/Getty Images Source:Getty Images

Picture: Royal Thai Navy via AP Source:AP

The mindsets of the boys would have very grounded before they took their plunge to get out of the cave. There would’ve been some who were panicked and anxious while others would have been more confident.

Their rescuers attempted to calm their minds, with some reportedly given sedatives to help steel their nerves for the journey out.

Meditation — a standard of Thai culture — is about getting the mind to the “right” place. Their coach, a former monk, is thought to have led the boys in some calming exercises.

While that may sound like hocus-pocus to some people, those with an interest in eastern culture will know the importance of stilling the mind and not panicking or becoming too anxious about dire situations.

It is not the sole reason the boys in their coach survived. It would just be ludicrous to say that. It was, much more practically, the work of the incredible divers who physically got the boys out, who did the job.

But having the right mindset was certainly something the boys needed.

The entire rescue seemed even more captivating and emotional because it involved kids.

Passionate, sporty young boys whose love of soccer and camaraderie ultimately left them trapped in the overflowing caves in the first place.

Many of us remember when Australian miners, Brant Webb and Todd Russell, were miraculously rescued from the Beaconsfield Mine collapse in April, 2006.

Of the 17 people who were in the mine at the time, 14 escaped immediately following the collapse, one was killed — Larry Knight — and the remaining two were found alive using a remote-controlled device.

The two miners were rescued on 9 May 2006, two weeks after being trapped nearly a kilometre below the surface.

This Thailand rescue was very, very different to Beaconsfield.

It involved children who could not swim; had never been cave-dived in their lives but somehow, with the impressive skill, experience and help of diving SEALs, they slithered their way out and back onto terra firma.

At the end, this was a good news story. But it was this close to being a very different tale.

Good news stories, these days, are very, very hard to come by. I get the feeling that they would’ve been many families across the world giving each other a big hug when the boys came out.

And let’s face it, what better feeling is there than that?

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The Classic French Breton from Jac Cadeaux & Claudia Stahl

Who doesn’t love a classic striped T-shirt longsleeve top? I would imagine most of us would have some kind of stripy number in their wardrobe – I still have some from Remo, that have stood the test of about 20 years!

And how fabulous is this collection from Claudia Stahl – under her terrific label, Jac Cadeaux.
Here’s a little Breton history . . .

The Breton stripe originates from Brittany (or ‘Bretagne’ in French) on the North West coast of France. A decree on the 27th March 1858 introduced the striped shirt as the prescribed seaman’s uniform. The stripes were white for 2cm and then blue for 1cm.

The navy and white striped shirt was made the uniform of the French navy. Somewhat ironically, the garment usually has a boat neckline. The distinctive striped pattern made them easy to spot in the waves in emergencies.

Many designer have a long enduring love of the simple but chic stripe. Coco Chanel introduced the striped pattern to a nautical inspired collection in 1917, after visiting France. Seaside destination holidays, like St Tropez, were becoming popular and so this more casual style was ideal. This style broke away from the more heavily fitted styles of the time. This stripe style was made even more popular by icons James Dean and Audrey Hepburn, Marilyn Monroe, Edie Sedwick, and Brigitte Bardot, wearing the style.

From its humble beginnings as a naval uniform, the Breton stripe pattern has grown to be almost synonymous with effortless Parisian style but further than that it has become a truly adored product that has stood the test of time.

Have best & worst dressed lists had their day?

On Monday, the worlds of fashion and film will collide as we see the biggest global runway in the world happen in Los Angeles. Hellooooo Oscars!
Yes, aside from a bumper year of some seriously extraordinary films, the other thing that will be just as scrutinised will be the red carpet fashion.

While that horrendous question ‘what are you wearing?’ – has (fortunately) lost its momentum & reverence over the last few years – let’s face it, it is still something that many, many people want to know.

I’ve been thinking a lot, particularly in light of every sexual atrocity and assault we’re hearing about everyday in the entertainment biz, and all the pro-female movements happening all over the world – thanks to #metoo and #timesup.

So, is ‘commenting’ on what public people and figures wear to a high profile awards night a goer anymore? Is it objectifying women or is it just all of us professing our own armchair opinion about a turntable of pop culture – fashion.

You know what, I think it is exactly that.
While that opinion may not go down well in all quarters, one of the great things about observing celebrities and stars and the dresses they wear and the make up they have on and their hair-dos and the jewellery they don often takes us away from what is normally a mundane Monday.
It takes us to fantasyland. It takes us into a world that most of us will never experience. It will be our water cooler conversation on Monday and probably well onto the next day.

Just wait until the Oscars and the first thing SO many onlookers, viewers and readers will look at and want to look at are the frocks – the grand gowns that none of us will ever be able to afford, but at least we know we can look at them and have an opinion about them.

But ‘having an opinion’ is where the line often gets blurred. Saying whether you ‘like’ the shape or color of a dress is not being judgemental. It is just being truthful. It’s not being judgey-judgey nor is it ‘bullying’.

We really need to look at fashion commentary just like we do at any other kind of pop culture commentary. Whether sport, the theatre, seeing a band or watching a movie – they either played well or they didn’t or we either liked a performance or we didn’t. And we all have a right to say it.
Because someone might say they don’t like a particular dress, that opinion is not a reflection, at all, on the person who is WEARING the dress. It is purely a personal opinion about a particular fashion aesthetic.

Of course there are going to be best and worst dressed lists. They happen at every awards night whether here or globally. While the words ‘best’ and ‘worst’ can be polarising, the reality is people turn to those stories because of their use in headlines.

As someone who, for many years, is called on to comment about red carpet fashion, I have wrestled with the words ‘worst’ or ‘bad’ and have to admit I feel a little uncomfortable using them myself. Sure, I have an opinion. I love having an opinion. And it is one that is supported by years of observing and writing about fashion and popular culture.

You have an opinion too. And not always will all of our opinions see eye to eye. But I really don’t think we should start getting so politically correct that we can’t express a feeling or opinion about a dress for goodness sake. Being downright bitchy, rude, a bully and personally attacking someone is totally not on. Comedian Joan Rivers was about the only person who could get away with it and even then there were times when her fans would cringe, but she delivered her comments in a way that only she could.

When we go into a shop we go through the racks and say yes, no, yes, no. Don’t like that. Yes, I do like that.
So when that huge slew of celebrities wander down the huge ruby rug on Monday, of course there are going to be divisive opinions. But that is what life is about. Expressing yourself – just as all of those on the red carpet at the Oscars will be doing. And if we want to be armchair critics, we can. We just need to draw the line at any kind of personal attack.

The one thing that good and informed commentary is about is being able to do it with a sense of knowledge and just remember to park the bitchy caravan a long way away.

By Melissa Hoyer